Dazzle with stainless steel pendants
You need not buy expensive gold, silver or titanium accessories to bedazzle people. Even lowly stainless steel can be used to good effect if used creatively and appropriately.
For starters, if your pendant is intended to be a real bling-bling item, it has to be large and sports a design that really catches the eye - eschew the usual designs like skulls and crosses. Why not order something really different, for example a miniaturized logo of BMW, Jaguar or Porsche? In this way, people would easily identify you from the rest of the crowd, as you have standout stainless steel pendants.